I am 23 years old and female.

I don't know if I have a sexual dysfunction but I suspect I probably do. Being that I don't know any other women who suffer from the problems that I do when it comes to sexual intercourse.

Oral sex feels amazing to me I love it. I want it all the time. When I was in a relationship over a year ago, that is all my boyfriend used to do with me and I'd be satisfied. I would always orgasm from it. I also enjoy giving it too.

But when it comes to sexual intercourse... I don't feel ANYTHING, I am not talking about lack of orgasm because of course I can't have those..but I don't derive any sort of pleasure from the act itself. It just feels like a penis is going in and out..kinda like when somebody is rubbing your arm..there's nothing gratifying about it

and when I am having sex I tend to dry up because I am not aroused anymore. after awhile it gets really boring and i can't wait for it to be over with. if i could actually feel something i would be a bit more responsive and into the act

i went to a gyno, who was unprofessional. when i told her my problem she made a very smart remark in which she said, "what do you want me to do about it?" i'm already a bit embarassed as it is that i am telling her this and that remark only made it worse. later she went on to tell me that this is just how my body is made and to have oral sex all the time does she not realize that this is a problem and having oral sex is simply just masking it? i WANT to have sex and i do want to enjoy it. i would l ike to be able to have a healthy relationship that involves penetration.

anyway, i don't know what i sould do...mind you i am low income and if there is any treatment available for me it would have to be at low cost or none at all..

your help and support would be greatly appreciated