I wasn't saying someone shouldn't have been a virgin at a certain age.

I met my h at 26. If I was still a virgin, I'm sure he would have like that and felt it was very special that he would be the one I would give myself to. But, I do really think he might have wondered if something was wrong, why I hadn't had sex yet. I don't know if he really would have even thought it was so special and maybe more of an obstacle.

Yep, I just asked him, and he said just what I thought he'd say. He would have wondered if I had a bad sexual experience and that was why I was still. He would have been fine with it if I was a virgin, but didn't care either way.

I had plenty of very special gifts to offer him beyond my hymen! I never even thought it about it that way.