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Amanda,

A therapist may be able to help you figure out whether or not there is a psychological basis for what is going on. You said that you had seen a gyno, albeit one that certainly wasn't very professional, so I assume they found nothing physically wrong down there or anything.

Keep in mind too that every female is different for what feels good - I have only ever orgasmed a handful of times with penetration, but I find if I have clitoral stimulation WITH penetration then I can, but it takes a long time. And I am alot better now than I used to be. I'm not sure what changed for me, other than getting older and being more comfortable with my partners.

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Honestly, I don't understand sex at all. I don't know what I am supposed to be feeling, i'm unsure if what I am feeling is normal or if it's not.

When you are having sex do you feel nothing at all until you have an orgasm? Or does the sex feel good and then you work youself up to an orgasm with clitoral stimulation??

Because I don't feel anything...the intercourse is not stimulating me at all. Clitoral stimulation is not enough to distract away from the discomfort I feel from vaginal penetration..