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Originally Posted by Luce
Which part do you want to win?
There are many ways of asking the same question.
Which part do you want to allow to win?
Which part do you want to lose?
Which part makes the ultimate decision?
Not all questions will generate the same answer, I am guessing.
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I'm not sure if anyone is still reading this thread I still want to reply to more responses for my own sake.
Your questions are difficult for me. I don't know. I don't want to have to research T's family. I want her to freely tell me. I don't care what the answers are. I want the part who feels hurt and angry to feel better. It's not just my saying " T doesn't want to share that with you but it's okay." There's more. It's a very deep hurt and angry, sad feeling. I have to explore it before the adult Self can win.