Vince,where you can start is by making the decision that your girlfriend and future child and especially YOU are so important that you are comitted to doing whatever it takes to rid you and their lives of the cancerous effects of drug use. The truth is that this will not take place on your prefered terms and WILL require a great deal of determination on your part to overcome... to underestimate this battle is to lose it, and perhaps everything you love with it. you risk it all when you use...