Pinksoil!

Good lord. You should kick his ***!!!

How did he not know that? Why did he not say that? Etc etc? GEEZ.

I wish I could smack him upside the head.

But I'm glad you'll be able to keep seeing him. I'd feel like crap too, even after getting that news. It's just hard to break out of the rotten feeling once you're enmeshed in it. But you will. And you guys will be able to talk this through and work on it. It will get better for you!!!!!!!!!!!!

After I had to change jobs I went from having a 10-minute commute to T to a 45-minute one (if I'm lucky and traffic doesn't suck). That part blows but it's totally worth it...

Sidony