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Jan 01, 2017, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted by StewieGG
I found out recently that he lied about being a virgin when we got together, for two years I have believed I was his first. Not only that, but he lost his virginity while cheating on his long distance girlfriend (a girlfriend he only met once and said it wasn't serious) on a one night stand. Do you think it's rational of me to be so shaken, and looking at him in a different light? He never lies to me, and we are very close so it came as a huge shock.
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I think that's a pretty big lie to swallow. It seems like a big lie to tell at the beginning of a relationship. So yes, I think it's legit that you are so shaken by it.
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