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Originally Posted by unaluna
Then why was HE in the family movies and you werent?
(I know, because you werent born yet, but it may have felt at the time like you were left out cuz they liked him best. Also that was a line from the Smothers Brothers, one always said, mom liked you (or me) best!)
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I always liked the Smothers Brothers and remember that line! You're right. Maybe I didn't understand about not being born if I was 4 or even 5. I never thought of it that way. And maybe I did think they cared more about him at the time!
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Originally Posted by venusss
Rainbow, DO you realize some people are more private and don't like to trumpet their secrets for the world to hear? That there are things you don't even tell friends?
It's not about YOU, it's about how others share. Maybe your T values her relationshiop and does not want to "curse" it by sharing it with all her clients. SHe is not shutting you out... this is not about you knowing every teeniest detail of your T's life... she is there to help you live your own life. You already wasted year obsesing about this T and previous Ts and... to be honest by your posts it does not seem to be getting any better. Are you all of sudden going to solve your childhood needs... or maybe is it matter just to accept and move on and learn to enjoy your own life.... You don't want to regret all the things you didn't do, do you?
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I know it doesn't seem to you that anything got better, but it did. My T agrees. I am accepting my life and being as happy as I can, and growing as a person.
If obsessing about my Ts is still my problem, then something is wrong. I agree. I wish I had the answer. Life just keeps getting more and more difficult for me. Im alone. I have new medical challenges. My life doesn't revolve around my Ts like it used to. You can disagree. It's your right. Yes, I know my T doesn't have to tell me. She and I are curious about my strong reactions. At the same time, in the real world I have art, music, friends and family. Maybe antidepressants would have helped but I couldn't tolerate the side effects. Thanks for your reply.