i understand hwo much you want the best for her. yes prayre helps a lot if you BELIEVE in it and not just ask for it from what i know.

begging is understandable but also less efficient than thanking God for what WILL happen.SORRY for giving "lectures" all the time. if you feel it doesn`t talk to you ignore it.

i think that if she is at the same counry city as you are etc...you can visit her and help her mentally and this will be relaly good for her.