question... do you mean a chat leader (person in charge of the chat taking place) or do you mean a moderator/ administrator (the names in different colors then other members example Sabby, Doc John, fooze, blukoi, have their names in different colors then other members because they are moderators all the moderators names are in a different color than the rest)

its my understanding that anyone can be a chat leader, they do not have to be of modrating/ administrative staff members (the ones in different colors)

my understanding is rule infractions are dealt with by the moderators and administrators (the ones in different colors) and they cant do any thing to enforce chat rules if no one is reporting there is a problem. kind of like if you do something wrong no one can do anything about it unless they see it happening and report you for that problem.

suggestion next time it happens and its not a one on one chat between two consenting adults in a private chat room to report the problem to a moderator who's name is in different colors.