...firstly. LOTS of people do NOT search their partners web history, that's just ....wrong. ALOT of straight women have same sex fantasies. This does NOT make them gay. I kiss my brother on the lips and sit on his knee. I have also shared a tent with him very recently and spooned. I do NOT want to Fk him though! I just feel safe with him, I know he expects nothing from me.We just adore each other, it's that simple. He is my family and if anyone demanded an ultimatum on how I behave with him they would be shown the,door.
You don't get to change other's, only yourself.