I don't mean to come across as judgemental, and sorry if I am, but I always viewed kissing someone on the lips as sexual and/or romantic in nature. Same with spooning. Maybe I'm just old fashioned with how I view relationships though. Besides, if the guy feels that it violates the monogamy of the relationship, then he has a right to ask that it be put to a stop.

I will agree that nosing around on her web history is a tad obsessive and unhealthy in nature, no matter what the content may be.