I don't really know if my problem is something serious that needs a therapist. A lot of people get cheated on anyway. I tried going to church for a few months to try and find some peace but I guess it doesn't work the same way for everyone. That's the closest I've come to having some kind of therapy I think.

@Gojamadar

Yes, I get what you mean. Although cheating has never crossed my mind, I've had other guys ask me out even though they knew I was married. For him maybe there were other factors too that's why he gave in. And like I said, he's really turned things around since. That's why I think the problem really is with me.