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Jan 02, 2017, 09:21 AM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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I think you need to sit down with your mom and say "Look, I'm happy to do my chores and my share of everything. But if brother decides to go on a bender and vomit all over the bathroom or something similar to another room, HE is cleaning that up. I'm not his nurse, and I'm not his maid. I'm not cleaning up after his bad decisions."
And put your foot down. There have to be boundaries.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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