i think i have antisocial traits. not a full personality disorder though. i think this is the result of a lot of my trauma. my T told me once that the kind of childhood i had is what breeds sociopaths!!! anyway, i am similar with lack of empathy towards others. i can count on 1 hand the people i feel empathy for, and that is not even all the time. i do feel a desire to connect with other people, but i also avoid other people like the plague. its a catch-22 for me.

as far as your therapist not helping you, i think your decision to quit was wise. if you are looking for a new therapist it might help to discuss your goals directly, what you want to work on, what you need help and guidance with, so the therapist can be clear about what you need from her/him