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Old Jan 02, 2017, 01:31 PM
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I must agree with the OP. I see older members, who were around before the sex chat ban, still come in and make completely inappropriate remarks, and there is no mod to help, so I report them each time, and they're still allowed in chat and nothing is done. I honestly see this as a problem with older members who refuse to abide by the sex chat ban, than new members who join the site.

I understand that harmless flirting is okay, but people make suggestive remarks to each other that are out of line. Many of us were abused by predators who started out with such suggestive remarks and it is EXTREMELY triggering. That's why I don't go into Adult Chat ever. But even in the Coffeehouse and sometimes Emotional Support, I am still subjected to this behavior. And if I bring it up, like iPhone and Artchic have said, you get targeted and bullied. If you report it to an admin, you never hear a response and it appears nothing happens to the perpetrators, because the sex talk continues.

I think one solution is that stricter rules need to be in place or the mods need to feel more comfortable kicking people out for such behavior. Because as I understand it, the mods feel like they don't have much power anymore as it is.

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