Yeah, I feel the exact same way. It's very attention seeking, and triggering all at the same time. Also, please don't advise us to "ignore" a member or three because then it's next to impossible to use the chat at all due to missing half of the conversation or something like that.

Bottom line is something needs to change big time. Maybe the whole guideline about discussing others administrative actions has to change. I'm not saying it needs to be made completely public, but perhaps saying to the person who was reporting the matter that so and so was suspended and assuring them it won't happen again is what needs to be said.

I've never been a part of a forum where not even the remotest reassurance that action has been taken was said to the person who was reporting the matter. I feel it's not only common curtesy, but a requirement to ease their mind and show them that there was something being done. This whole forum feels like you're purposefully being kept in the dark. I don't know why, but it feels that way.