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Originally Posted by Krimekitty
Well it's been over a year since I last caught him. He's been very patient and sweet since then. ..... I don't have the option to leave him anymore though. We have a baby on the way which is part of the reason I want to fix myself. I feel like this time around I'm the one messing up our relationship because I can't move on. He's changed so much in the past year that I hate myself for not being happy.
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Originally Posted by Krimekitty
I tried going to church for a few months to try and find some peace but I guess it doesn't work the same way for everyone. That's the closest I've come to having some kind of therapy I think.
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The problem with serial liars and cheaters is that you don't KNOW if he really quit cheating or if he just got better at lying. YOU are not the one messing this up. It is perfectly natural--and in fact sane and rational--to not trust a man who has repeatedly SHOWN HIMSELF to be untrustworthy.
It is possible to leave a man while pregnant. At the very least, I suggest you start getting your ducks in a row
in case you catch him cheating again. Have an exit plan. Have money stashed. Have at the very least a part time job, and preferably one in which you can increase hours later.
I have been in your position and finally left him--with multiple children to support. I have never once regretted it.