Since you have been journaling, do you think you could go through and prioritize the things that you feel really need to be talked about verse things that resolved themselves over the break?

Also, would you t be open to reading your journal or a catch up email that just pretty much highlighted what's been going on without going into much details so that you don't have to spend so much time just updating her on your life?

It is so hard when we are attached to our t's and we are angry with them. So hard to balance the feelings, wants, and needs our hearts have for them and the logical brain understanding of what is going on.