My mom is like you. Harsh, low voice. Rigid type of motor skills, problems with doing things like driving, etc. Problems at work and with people and social situations. She's never been diagnosed but I have for a long time suspected Asperger's or something in that neighborhood.

The creepy guys swarm to her like flies on fly paper. Not even kidding. At any job with a LOT of people of both genders it is not surprising to get hit on by men, though, actually. THOSE guys will try. And gross you out. and make you want to throw things at them. Try not to take it so personally.