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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
He's just using and manipulating you. He's intimidating you to keep financially supporting him. This is Gaslighting, an abuse.
But you are just caught up in the short of it. I see you post about little things that he is doing that upset you. You are missing the big picture.
He will probably take you for as much money as he can. Meanwhile, he cheats, lies, etc... Do you trust him at all about anything?
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It's very hard to trust him on pretty much anything anymore. I certainly can't believe it if he tells me he's going to work or if he's been at work. I have to email him at work to see if I get a response then I can relax. I mean he even gave me the story on Thursday when I got home about how he went in to see his boss but he was busy so he just went home and would try again tomorrow. Does he not understand how "out there" that whole lie is? You haven't been there for 1 1/2 weeks and you just pop in to have a talk with your boss but not to work and leave and will try again the next day? I heard for days about how he just needed to go in and get his check so if he had gotten it, he certainly would have deposited it but no deposit was in his account. There was no talk about what anyone said to him. Yet the next day when he DOES go in he comes home yakking about how everyone wanted to make sure he was okay and even handed over his check to me to scan for a deposit. Does he not realize the lie he just told me the day before about going in?? Let me guess, if I would have asked about his check that day he would have gone "Oh they said they just put it in the mail so I should get it tomorrow"!