I used the term relationship just because I did not have right vocabulary. He tried to control my life too much, and I get tired of it. I expressly told him I wanted to break up with him, and explained why I wanted to break up. He keep saying I misunderstand him, but the truth is I don't like him or even feel scared. It's not misunderstanding. It's my feeling. He told me he won't bother me again years ago, but he did contact me again..... I'm really scared.