So that potential therapist who didn't seem comfortable with transference emailed me back today saying, "the issue that I see with your request is that any therapist will tell you that it is not ethically correct to work with you and then have you return to do treatment with the same person you are having these feelings with. I encourage you to be open and honest with your therapist about your feelings. The right thing to do will be to refer you to another person. Then you can address this situation with a new therapist especially if you are aware that this is something repetitive." ????????????????? grade A ***** if you ask me