Everyone has a history. She seems like she's turned her life around but maybe isn't that 'together' which is fine, many people aren't. If her history and alcohol/cigarette consumption are too much for you it might be an idea to knock it on the head while it's still very early on. However it does sound like you like her a lot, so I'd give it some serious thought.
__________________
Schizoaffective disorder
150mg Lamotrigine
5mg Olanzapine
|