Some mental illnesses come on suddenly. And from what I have been told, some become apparent (sometimes suddenly) around the age of 20. Thats what hubby's docs told us.

Wait for the diagnosis...then go from there. Just something to think about. I know you love him. Make sure sticking with him is something you are sure you want to do. Sometimes love isn't enough. Hubby and I have been to hell and back and it's our relationship that has kept us together...things may get worse before they get better.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to pm me. I love a crazy man (his words, not mine lol) and will help if I can.