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Originally Posted by babkababy
As a sufferer of complex trauma have you ever threatened to leave your spouse that treated you well? To live alone by yourself. Why? Does your spouse affirming that they love you and will not abandon you help ground, soothe you?
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There could be different reasons for feeling this way. But the only way to find any resolve to this would be for both parties to get involved in counseling, individual and couples. Find out the core problem and work on it to make the relationship work out, if that's what both parties want. Having that love and support from a spouse is a dream come true for many people. But if it's not the love and support you need, that needs to be discussed with a professional. You both deserve to be loved and happy, sometimes that takes a little work, but it's worth it
