Don't stay with someone that makes you miserable. First, try to fix it. If that doesn't work do a huge favor for both of you and move on.
I was married for 20 years and both of us were miserable for almost the entire time. We had the good old "stick to it through better or worse" attitude until finally a marriage counselor (she was number 3) told us that some people are simply not meant to be together. I still hung on as my ex wife insisted we divorce. Finally she made it happen on her own. Three years later, I can tell you that was the best thing she ever did for us! She is a great women and, now, we get along great. The kids see it and we are both healthy in our separate lives.
Don't allow anyone to make you miserable!
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mapper
I won't ever leave. I'm in it for "better or worse"! He just can't stay at a job for very long because everyone or everything about it starts pissing him off. Every job starts out with "This is the greatest job! Everyone is so laid back and awesome". Within 2 months he starts getting irritated with things and within a year it's time to not go to work and look for another job.
|