Okay Angela, I have not been able to even comprehend your situation due to BEING THERE! However, as a parent who has lost a child I cherished the memories that others shared. Write some down, copy pics if you have them, and bring it with cookies etc. It it feels right then ask for a keepsake. You are sensitive so you will know. I would have asked you what you wanted and been happy to give it to you with love. Please do see them and share with them. Do not be afraid to show your feelings. Read over some things from Compassionate friends, it helps to understand where the parents are at. Good luck.