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Old Jan 04, 2017, 09:21 PM
Krimekitty Krimekitty is offline
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Location: Philippines
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Thanks everyone for the input.. I really appreciate the concern, specially those who want to assure me that I don't need fixing.. I guess I may have used the wrong term when I said "fix" coz it made it look like I'm blaming myself.. Definitely my husband is a chronic liar.. He lies to everyone, even his parents and friends.. Often about trivial things like having a lot of money or having just bought a new condo or having gone on vacation somewhere really nice.. I've gotten used to him being like that and I guess I accepted it as a part of him.. When he came back after the other girl dumped him, I was 100% on convinced that he should do everything to prove his loyalty and honesty.. That fixin things is his responsibility.. And he's done everything I asked.. He let me install an app that emails me all his incoming and outgoing texts/calls.. He sends me photos of where he is whenever i ask.. He gave me free access to his emails and social media accounts.. He cancels any plans of going out if I say so.. When he's at work and I tell him I'm hungry, he'd be home in less than 30 mins with food in tow.. When he's out with friends I can tell him to come home any time and he will immediately pack up and head home.. Girls have been sending him messages, those he used to fool around with, and he doesn't delete them and he never replies..not even a thumbs up.. He's done all these things without showing any sign of resentment.. I can't think of anything else he can do to make me happy again.. I'm afraid to think that maybe I have just fallen out of love with him.. After all those years of putting up with his lying and cheating, he's finally treating me better so I really don't want to let that go to waste..

I'll try to consult with a therapist if there is something that either of us can do.. Again thanks everyone..
Hugs from:
Anonymous37954, Bill3, Rose76
Thanks for this!
Bill3, Rose76