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Originally Posted by What_the_hell
thank you for your reply. I do see myself thinking of a person as a 'project' at times and realize how messed up it is. Changing my perspective.
Does it make a difference to you that we are both women?..
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None whatsoever.
I profer the exact same advice to you as a gay woman.
Ask yourself what is it about someone way less favorably endowed by life than yourself that so piques your interest. There is a bigger issue here than just your assignation with this one particular woman. You are not connecting well with potential partners who could be described as having "peer status," socially, with yourself. That problem will be dogging you, even if you clip off the connection to this individual.
You are gravitating toward excessively needy types. (I have the same tendency.) It's unhealthy.