I really am having a hard time following this. only cause i do not think all men or a certain gender should be grouped as selfishs. SO sorry if this affends anyone. But i am thinking the title maybe affending the guys here.IMHO
So i will give some good points of the guys here and in my life and our world
1} most firer fighters are men, they give thier lives for it
2} most veterens are men, giving thier lives once again
3) hey joe, tymber, trm, have answered every question i have asked here, and very nicley too
4} my husband does. laundry, dishes, cooks, helps at store, brings me lunch, drives son around
5}the florist in town here is a guy, has protected me many times
6) we as a group here support each other weather it be man or woman

Rhap i think you have just met the wrong guys in your life.
I hope you met one of the good guys as there are many out there.