Well it's irritating I agree

...but to all honesty I don't get you at times. You said you two do nothing but watch tv and you are bored, so why not have them over? If you have no time to cook why not get take outs? Or have something quick? I also don't get why you need to clean the house. You said all you do is clean and watch tv so shouldn't the house be already clean by now? Do you not keep the house clean on
a daily basis?

I do understand your spouses spontaneous nature would be tough on me too, I am a planner. But since you two never do anything then why not be excited there is a bit of fun in your life?