Sorry Mapper but it's your own fault.You could have said no when he invited them over.Yes you were put on the spot but you still could have made an excuse to get out of it.Wouldn't that have been easier and better than what you are going through now?

My husband has pulled crap like that before,so I get how frustrating and upsetting it is,but really it was my own fault for allowing him to get away with it.