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Old Jan 05, 2017, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
No way you should clean after drunken brothers vomiting. Wtf?

Saying all that I don't get it how two adults living with parents only have to keep their rooms clean and one bathroom. Who does the rest? Honestly living rent free and only working part time imho means adult kids take care of all cleaning and other chores like vacuum and dust the whole house etc etc with that many people and pets there is a lot to do! Who does everything? Yard work? Mom?

Take on additional responsibilities around the house and then tell mom that vomit isn't your responsibility. Otherwise she might just see it as you are being freeloader like your brother

Your parents are very much enablers. I really can't Imagine!
Divine, I was thinking the same thing! Is that a difference between american parents and our european background? When i was staying with my mother, i did her laundry, folded it and put it away, the vacuuming, the dusting, washed the floors, cut the grass, shoveled the snow, pulled the weeds, and did major projects like scrub the kitchen, dining room, and bathroom ceiling to floor with ammonia. Also washed the dishes, and she was always cooking for her friends and relatives. Made her bed, changed the sheets, did the ironing. Dyed and rolled her hair. Gave her professional manicures and pedicures. And she made me feel like i did NOTHING.

Huh. No wonder my aunt asked me to come live with her!