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Originally Posted by divine1966
Take on additional responsibilities around the house and then tell mom that vomit isn't your responsibility. Otherwise she might just see it as you are being freeloader like your brother
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^ this... is a very good point and I wholeheartedly support this.
Even if you feel like you do your share around the house, it gives you more leverage when you are able to do something more to show that you are doing your part to emphasize you're not, as divine put it, "freeloading" and trying to get out of work.
Keep in mind always though that it is not your house and you are living under a roof where someone else is taking care of the bulk of things financially and go to her with gratefulness not bitterness when you bring it up.