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Old Jan 05, 2017, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted by velcro003 View Post
ok i wrote as i was crying...but i think what he actually wrote makes less sense?

"You come across as selfish. Horribly, reproachable self centered so many effing times, its unreal. I'm done making an effort. You are a ****** friend, Velcro.

No, my good friend's boyfriend. I was also really upset to think she thought hte same thing.she doesn't, and said that sometimes my words come across as curt or abrupt, but that isn't the way she would go about talking to me about it. It is hard for her because she's in the middle.
It's crappy, Velcro, and it makes me mad that he sent that to you. Because if a person is truly trying to resolve an issue within a relationship, it is most productive to do so in person, and without being so accusatory. That yields actual change. This was intended solely to hurt you.
Thanks for this!
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