lolliebug,

My honest advice is the individual that doesn't deserve ANY of this is the child. This child doesn't deserve to have a mother that abuses drugs and is willing to drop the charges on a husband that has abused her. If it was me, I would call Child Services and report what is going on, you can do this anonymously. That is the only way you can "fix" this situation. Your sister needs to get off drugs and her child needs to be someplace "safe" until her mother gets the help she needs so she can get off the drugs and be a responsible mother.

No child should have to face the neglect that your sister's child is clearly facing because the mother is using drugs. One can not turn back the clock and change the damage being caused by that.