Hes still ungrammatical and looking up words in the thesaurus. Like hes diagnosing you. Why doesnt he say how he feels? I guess im sensitive to his criticism because people tell me im a knowitall. So TELL me im being a knowitall - it doesnt mean i dont CARE about you. It just means i think i have an answer. A stereotypically masculine trait, but that does not by definition make a person an ahole. Does it?