I don't even know if she took notice of those things. I was not doing them because I thought she would appreciate it, I did it because I saw they needed to be done. Well except for her clothes, I did that because I thought she would appreciate it. I really did not feel that the yard needed to be cut. I did not go there in hopes of doing things that she would look at me and say, Gee honey thanks for doing that for me. I did the things because I know they needed to be done. I seek no affirmation for those things, because if I did I would have sent her a text message saying Look what I did honey. I am just at a loss sorry.