Well good news / bad news, the latest thinking on SAD is that it is "part" of a mood cycle, that needs treatment, whether your up in summer and down in winter ot vice versa , and whether the up is noticeable ( as in hypo manic/manic) they claim it's cyclic, me as the skeptic thinks this is a stretch , but potentially a a new source of revenue for doctors and more importantly big pharma , so you may see doctors treating SAD more aggressively with drugs yet they show no additional benefit over photon therapy.

No offense but you should have seen that kick in the face coming , cheaters will always cheat ,and bringing home a minor , should have been your clue that something was not right with your partner, oh yes they will try to push blame and liability over to you ,in anyway they can , so as to not have to admit that they are cheaters ( I would say dogs, but my dog is very loyal to me , yes he will try and hump his cousin in the courtyard without a doubt) people need to realize that people who cheat will generally always , just as in a relationship if one partner becomes violent, that is not the first time or the last time, no matter what they say .

Yes it's a relationship casualty , but better at 15 years than 20 or 25 or longer, you get to build yourself up and move on to a healthier relationship , your former partner gets to stay with his cheat until he doesn't serve his purpose and he throws them back for someone new . You may not feel it , but you are better off, You have your independence and your dignity and can hopefully find another someone to share that with who will appreciate and respect you , although commonly said during wedding vows to love, honor & cherish, they know no religion, sex or color they are principals that relationships are built on , you get to move on with your honor intact,celebrate that and hold your head high.