So, its been over a year since I've had any intimate relations with anyguy. I really want sex, thats not the issue. The issue is I'm not looking for meaningless sex. If I plan on having sex with you its a commitment. I dont want to have sex just to have sex. But its coming to the point where I say the hell with my values. The other reason is I have to trust the people I'm having sex with. I dont just want to be a person who gets down and dirty all willy nilly. I am a bottom and that means I'm the one getting plowed, so I think I have that right. How do people survive for so long without it. Please give me some advice.