Oh man RX.
You're singing my song.
I was a fixer but let it go. My 1/2 bro was down and out most of his life too.
I kept him clean and sober at my house once for 8 months. The day I cut him loose he robbed me of all my money and returned to drug den.
I'm sure half the people on here could share a similar story.
Don't wait till you're being driven to the ER to stop.
Just realize the price you pay is too high. You work harder than they do. ( like you were saying.
They don't have a vested interest in healthy recovery.
The only way to stop fixing is to stop. Get mad at yourself if you need to. Remind yourself of all the times you've been taken advantage of,if that helps.
Then-- S T O P--