Hi Impala...I definitely agree, it is important for you to let her know that her past behavior is not acceptable. It will be hard to do that without brining it all back up. Also, in some ways I might be inclined to start over with a fresh slate, but make sure I set good firm boundaries. Not let the bad behavior become part of the friendship. That would be hard. I don’t know, sounds like you are in a tough spot. I am not sure what I would do or how I would handle it. I admire you for not wanting to give up on a friendship. You sound like a very loyal friend...just remember, you need to take care of yourself before you can be her friend.