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Old Nov 12, 2007, 05:23 PM
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Well, here I am again, Dragon. I hope you don't mind.

It seems to me that you may feel that you're loosing your individuality, or maybe that she's not trying, too, as hard as you are. Maybe she's not as receptive to your changes as you wish she was?

To me, this feeling goes along with your disappointment of this weekend. You tried your darndest and she really didn't appreciate it. Can't say as I'd blame you if you threw your wedding ring as far as you could! That's not really what you want, though, is it?

It's just frustration of the moment, that what you had hoped would be a small step closer to getting together again and it didn't work out quite right. It may seem that way right now but give yourself time, give your wife time and give the counseling that you're getting time.

I hope your minister is doing right by you. In my experience, ministers aren't good marriage counselors. You might try looking for a Christian Marriage and Family Counselor. Just a thought.

I truly hope you succeed in your endeavors, Dragon!
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