I often feel silly because it gets to me. A few weeks back I told t, "I swear I didn't used to be such a mess. Maybe I wasn't using the best coping mechanisms but I was stable. I was managing."

My guess is that if things are still in such a state of flux, you have stuff to talk about as long as your t can go there with you. My t and I spend almost equal time talking about things in my life and about our relationship. *my song and dance* It goes a little like this... first I feel something, then I don't feel something, then I put it on t, then I put it on me, then we talk us through, and finally it makes it to my life and makes more sense. *all to the tune of the hokey pokey*