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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I told her, that child part, that she can't be part of T's life, that T doesn't want her to be. She cried when she heard that. I told her that she can be part of MY life, and she has to accept that T loves her, but she can only be in her life during the session. After that, she has me. Then I hugged her, or tried to visualize my hugging her. She just held onto me and cried.
So, it comes down to attachment again. Maybe that incubator. Not getting what I needed from my Mom. Idk.
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In the end it doesn't matter where it comes from. Knowing if it was this or that or neither doesn't make a scrap of difference to 'what is'. And there isn't really any way of knowing anyway.
But the bolded part is where all the healing is. That is where you will create change. You can be for that inner child more far than T or anyone else in the world could ever be.
You and her together, looking out for and after one another, will give you an inner peace and sense of love that is 100% secure, dependable and
there.
Have you ever considered the fact
that YOU shut out the child sense of you, too?