ok so I took the advice of the other thread and we talked about it. And we shook hands, looking at her face. She offered to do it again and I said yes, this time I looked at her hand, rotated, so I could see the back of her hand. And then we shook hands again at end of session. I think, like CrispApple said on the other thread, I might not need it again. It's just not a barrier, a limitation. We've had some pretty good talks about it over the last few weeks. I'm glad it came up and everything... it has been a tough but not overly rough couple of weeks.

And by the way... she's human