I use a lubricant and it helps with moisture but not at all with making my sexual experiences pleasureable)-:

i just want to feel like a woman. i don't feel complete. this is something that really bothers me. i'll even cry about it some times. i used to hate when my friend would bring up sex and how it felt good with her boyfriend, deep down i'd feel inferior. sometimes i don't even like to hear other women talking about sex and much they enjoy it. i just die inside like i am missing out on the best years of my life. i feel broken