I'm totally there with you except current T told me that former T failed in her job to make therapy work for me.

I could choose to disbelieve current T but then that would basically mean I'm contributing to not making therapy work with current T?

Or, I could believe current T in which case I'd believe that the therapist has a responsibility?

I dunno -- it all seems rather confusing and complicated

I really appreciate your ability to reduce it all to something so simple.