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Originally Posted by here today
Clearly, I was calling out people's veiled accusations and judgments for my own reasons...
So, maybe it's just that now I can choose more judicially when and where I do it based on my own needs and my perception of potential community benefit, and not a co-dependent need to "rescue" somebody else?
Does that make sense? Any thoughts or suggestions?
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I try to put the other person first, the community second and myself last. When I see "veiled accusations and judgments", bad advice or whatever, I first try to see whether and/or how the OP is being affected...and then do (or not) as I would want done (or not) for me.